It is thought by some that being body positive, confident and losing weight can’t go hand in hand; in fact many people lose weight because they hate their bodies thus defeating the whole concept of being body positive. However I assure you that a complete balance of self confidence, body positivity and weight loss/fitness can be achieved in a very harmonious way , choosing to lose weight and becoming fit out of love for your body is long lasting and the best way to do it,
Here are 5 tips on how to love your body during your weight loss/fitness journey!
1. BE KIND TO YOURSELF!
You know that terrible habit of pin pointing every little flaw you have and then fixating on them over and over again? Yeah, that has to stop, instead of wasting your precious time and joy thinking about how much you hate your belly, arm fat, back fat, cellulite etc think about the positive things!, think about what your body has been through all these years and how hard it has worked moving around and doing all the things you have been doing! There is enough negativity in the world so don’t bring it that close to home. Your body is precious, you should be thankful that you have it up and running!
2. HEALTH AND FITNESS NOT JUST LOSING WEIGHT:
what this means is that do not get fixated with the number on the scale! Its not just about losing weight, you must look at the bigger picture, it’s about losing fat, gaining some lean muscle, getting fit and ultimately getting healthier! If you think of it as a journey to better health you will not fall for fad diets or any other weight loss schemes because your primary goal will be getting fit and healthy and not just seeing the number on the scale going down.
3. LIVE IN THE MOMENT:
Do not wait until you have lost X amount of weight to be happy, to love your body, to start going out again, dressing up or to have fun! you have to do it right now, if you can’t be happy with yourself now chances are you wont be happy with yourself in the future!. Many people have experienced reaching their goal weight being ANTICLIMACTIC simply because they didn’t take time to learn to love and appreciate themselves during their journeys. Start being happy now and save yourself from a full-blown depression incase God forbid being unable to get to your goal or just taking forever to get to it! Weight loss and fitness can be unpredictable so save yourself the pain and just love yourself and start enjoying yourself NOW!
Life has no pause buttons, dreams have no expiry dates, time has no holiday, so don’t miss out on a single moment of your life!
4. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS:
You are unique! We lose weight differently just as how we carry the weight differently, therefore your journey may not be as quick or eventful as the next person’s journey, stop going on YouTube searching for people who have the same weight as you and start copying everything they do and then comparing your weight loses! (I’ve done that a couple of times lol!) That’s a horrible idea because if things wont go as planned you will get frustrated and quit! Find something that’s tailored to you, make it yourself or get professional help for your doctor, nutritionist, trainer or a qualified health coach to help you stick to the plan.
5. WORK OUT:
Losing weight without exercise is possible in fact a lot of people do it everyday, because it is said weight loss is 80% what you eat and just 20% exercise. However working out is crucial to the rejuvenation of your body! Imagine your body at a high weight, you walk slower, your joints are overworking, you are mostly sedentary, your organs are running a very heavy load, now that you are in the process of losing weight the load is decreasing so you need to change the efficiency of the machinery that runs your body!, the joints need to be stretched, the muscles need to recover, be renewed and grow to keep up with the now lighter and more active body, your organs need to keep up as you basal metabolism rate is changing, all these are made possible by working out! You don’t have to go to the gym, the comfort of your own home is enough and you will feel amazing once your body gets in tune!
DRESS YOURSELF UP! I can’t emphasize enough on this! Dress the right way for your current body, give yourself compliments, feel beautiful and sexy because you are! Go out, treat yourself and have some fun, stop fixating on just losing weight! Lose weight out of love for your body and not out of hate.
It has taken me so years to realize the importance of self love and body positivity, I wasted a lot of time hating my body, but now regardless of the fact that I am nowhere near my goal weight, I LOVE MYSELF! I feel BEAUTIFUL, SEXY and CONFIDENT! I do not care if no one else thinks that I am still obese and not beautiful or if no one compliments me because I have learnt that the only person in this world that can love me UNCONDITIONALLY is I! And I am going to keep being kind to myself and loving each part of me because I am GORGEOUS, SMART, KIND and very TALENTED Obese or not,
And guess what?, you got it! SO. ARE .YOU!…so are you…Now lets give our health and fitness journeys 100% We can do it!
Love Gg!